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What Ben Affleck Can Teach Us about Bravery #atozchallenge #RatedR #IndieFilm

"I'm grateful for everything you've done for me. You're like my brother...but I'm leaving. Are you gonna shoot me? Go ahead...but you'll have to shoot me in the back."

 – Ben Affleck as Doug MacRay in the Crime Drama “THE TOWN” 

A "Four Eyed Monsters" Scene Directed by Susan Buice and Arin CrumleyYou have to be willing to stand up for what you want. It's about making decisions for yourself that might be unpopular or unwelcome by the masses.

It's about hearing people or traditions or even your own self-doubt try to hold you back or forbid you from doing something different; entertaining new possibilities, and still pushing forward in a way that says "Screw you! I'm doing it anyway!" -- even if it means losing the relationships or status that you had with friends, family or the extended community, up until this point.

Bravery is the moment when you take huge risks to forego what's comfortable and familiar, in favor of the possibility to be in a situation that best meets your interests or needs. It surfaces when you stop questioning your own motives. It reveals itself the moment you quit making choices that you are less than enthusiastic about, only to please other people. Being an independent filmmaker requires a certain level of bravery at many stages of the process.

That scene in “The Town” where Ben Afflecks character basically tells his best friend to go fuck himself, is what I think it means to be brave. Three independent filmmakers, however, also come to mind when I think about what bravery looks like.

  • Collaborators Susan Buice and Arin Crumley’s Do-It-Yourself approach to finding (and growing) an audience of more than a half million people is unlike anything that has been done before they made the comedy drama “Four Eyed Monsters.” 

They captured their filmmaking journey as well as a budding romantic relationship, and shared it in a series of video podcasts on their YouTube channel.

Buice and Crumley were brave to make their experiences public on another level, chronicling the pitfalls and successes that they each faced as artists, lovers and friends who mixed business with pleasure; all for the world to see – through massive credit card debt, depression, insecurities about STDs and all, despite the risk of being scrutinized by people in their own social circles, co-workers, roommates, YouTube viewers and film industry critics.

They were also brave to pursue non-traditional means of getting people to pay attention to their work, which included convincing fans to “request” their film in local theaters, which helped them organize a release correlating with the demand in cities across the country.

  • Bravery explains how Steve Balderson can call people, companies and organizations on their bullshit while also questioning the conventional practices that we irrationally follow when it comes to the movie business. 

Balderson doesn't limit himself in any way and is not afraid to stay true to his vision. He stands tall even when people are walking out of the theater where his movie is playing, or throwing objects at the screen in anger during the film festival run for his comedy drama “Watch Out.” He has worked with some of the most unforgettable talent that a filmmaker could have the pleasure to direct, including the late actress Karen Black.

In filmmaking, as in other professions (and various areas of life, for that matter), there will be people like Ben Affleck’s (fictional) best friend, who will want to keep you from steering your life in the direction you want it to go in -- and in the way you so desire to do so. Appeasing those kinds of people doesn’t do anyone any good. I know I don’t have time for that kind of nonsense and I’m guessing that neither do you, so we’re both in the same boat. So whaddya say we tell them to go fuck themselves! Stand tall like Steve Balderson. Get creative with your pursuits like Arin Crumley and Susan Buice. Be brave.

What does Bravery look like to YOU?

If you haven’t already, read yesterday’s post: Awards are Worthless – The Anxiety of Seeking Approval as an Artist, the first installment in my series about Why We Make Movies.

 

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What a great post Nicole, loved the original quote and then the examples are really inspiring. I guess it's easier to follow an already tried pattern even if it's only half-working then to go out and risk a potentially bigger failure. But it's also less fun and more boring at the same time. So you're right, we should not give in those people who are trying to hold us back - especially if that person happens to be myself!
Thanks for the food of thought!
Andrea

April 3, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterMiss Andi

Sounds about right! Bravest thing in my life that last couple of weeks is packing up and moving to a new country for a new job. Eep!

April 3, 2014 | Unregistered Commenterdeniz

I see Bravery all around me. From the small child with cancer to the very old hobbling around with the help of a walker. To children sticking up for their friends who are being bullied to adults helping one another to survive. Good Post.

April 3, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterCathrina Constantine

Bravery requires the ability to know what's right and do it. Sometimes this means hardening yourself, enough to negate negative messages being sent your way. Other times it requires persistence and perseverance, enabling you to stay the course, only adjusting the sails because even you are smart enough to know when the wind changes.

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April 3, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterM. J. Joachim

Sometimes the bravest among us not only stand their ground, they do it with calm determination.

April 3, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterC. Lee McKenzie

Well said! BRAVERY is exactly that daring to leave a comfort zone!

April 3, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterM.C.V. EGAN

Great examples in your post, and the comments. I think bravery is doing what you know is right for you, even when others try damn hard to convince you otherwise. And yes, there's the "go fuck yourselves" aspect to it which I find a very satisfying phrase to use when needed. Or at least the thought of it in my head when the words themselves aren't appropriate in the situation. For example, dealing with your own mother...
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April 3, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterTina

Being brave may not be the easiest thing in the world, but it's often the route taken to be true to one's self in the face of great criticism and negative feedback.

April 3, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterAngela Brown

Since the 70's I think filmmakers have been more willing to take chances and be adamant about fulfilling the visions they had for films. Prior to that the studios had greater control. They still do on the big budget films, but the indie scene has shown that some gutsiness can pay off in a big way.

Lee
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April 7, 2014 | Unregistered CommenterArlee Bird

Ben Affleck really grew on me. I didn't like him at first. Yet, over the years he has become one of my favorite actors and directors. That speaks to me of talent and perseverance. Now, I'll see just about anything with his name attached to it.

Bravery means doing the right thing when everyone around you is doing the wrong thing, and when they are trying to convince you to stop being so crazy. Which means, in essence, sometimes bravery means looking crazy. Or even worse, sometimes bravery actually means BEING crazy. Not everyone is cut out for it. Artists, regardless of the creative field, seem generally to be at peace with coming off as crazy. I consider myself in good company!

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